Why do you want a partner and what do you hope a relationship will bring into your life?
Are you choosing someone because of love and compatibility, or because they offer comfort, familiarity, security, or validation? Whether you are looking for a partner or questioning your current relationship, these are not always easy questions to answer. Join our experts for an open, interactive conversation that will help you look beyond the idea of finding a “perfect partner” and understand what truly makes a relationship meaningful, healthy, and sustainable.
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Key Takeaways
Understand why you want a partner
Explore what you seek from a partner and the role you want a relationship to play in your life.
Recognise what drives your relationship choices
Reflect on whether you choose partners based on love, comfort, compatibility, validation, security or familiarity.
Look beyond attraction and chemistry
Understand the difference between attraction, love, commitment and long-term compatibility.
Build a real relationship, not a perfect one
Learn how healthy relationships are nurtured over time through understanding, effort and growth.
About the Experts
Ann Xavier Choolackal
Chief Clinical Officer, Silver Oak Health
A Clinical Psychologist with over 15 years of experience across clinical and corporate settings. She previously headed Psychological Services at Silver Oak Health and has also worked with Cadabams Hospital, HCG Cancer Hospital, and Pearson's R&D team.
Dr. Mathai Fenn
Cognitive Psychologist & Life Coach
He holds a PhD from IIT Bombay and has taught at XLRI Jamshedpur, with courses delivered across India, the Middle East, and Armenia. His recent corporate clients include Mahindra, BHEL, Indian Oil and many others in India and abroad. In his coaching practice, he helps individuals see the patterns behind their choices and navigate life's big decisions with clarity.