Dealing with Life’s Daily Anxieties
Have you ever felt that knot in your stomach that just won’t loosen, a feeling of discomfort and unease that lingers but you can’t put a finger on why? Sometimes you feel like you can’t take a deep breath, there is a niggling fear in the pit of your stomach and the back of your mind? What you are feeling is anxiety: a state of anticipation, worry or tension that manifests itself in your body and mind.
It is not difficult to see why there is so much anxiety around: we are almost regularly confronted by various stimuli that has the potency to trigger feelings of anxiety. In the day and age of social media where picture after picture of others’ happiness and success is plastered on our phones and our minds, it is hard to get away from doubts about ourselves, our future, our happiness. We are forced to confront our insecurities every other day, and it is not a pleasant feeling.
When we come across unpleasant situations or sensations, one of our most instinctive reactions is to avoid it quickly and as much as possible – by ignoring the feeling, by distracting ourselves or by trivializing it. The truth is that every time you ignore that niggling feeling, the more powerful it seems to become. Imagine a small monster in your mind that is asking for attention and every time you don’t give it attention it grows bigger and its tantrums grow louder and more persistent.